"Why doesn't that person understand me?"
Have you ever thought like that?

We live in relationships with other people.
Whether at work, with friends and acquaintances, or with parents and children, we are in constant relationship with others and communicate through conversation.

In a meeting with a subordinate, a conversation with a friend, or a conversation between a parent and a child, you may ask, "Why don't you understand what I'm saying? I'm sure there are times

Many of the problems in human relationships are caused by misunderstandings.
It is not only you, but the other person suffers from the same feeling.

Why is it so difficult for people to understand what the other person is saying?

In order to facilitate communication, many people try to be good talkers.
If you speak clearly and well, the other person will understand you.
That is the heart of conversation, which is very important.

However, in interpersonal communication, there is actually something more important.
That is "how to listen".

Have you ever been aware of how you listen?
Everyone has their own unique way of listening, and you have your own unique way of listening that you are not aware of.
If the other person does not understand you, it is because they are not listening to you as you intended.
The reason they don't understand is because they are not listening to you as you intended.

"You have your own way of listening, and that way of listening is what makes your life.
Would you be surprised if someone told you that? This is not an exaggeration, but a statement that gets to the heart of the matter.

The problems you have in interpersonal and business communication are all caused by the way you listen.
All of your interpersonal and business communication problems are caused by the way you listen, and you are causing them yourself.
Conversely, your success is guided by your innate listening skills.
Listening is the key to interpersonal and business communication.

In the Japanese Shinto tradition, there are four ways of listening.
These four patterns are derived from the ancient Japanese concept of Shinto.
There are many shrines in Japan that pass on this concept.

The purpose of this book is to shed light on behavioral science on the "One Spirit with Four Souls," in other words, "Ichirei-Shikon".

In this book, you will learn about your own unique way of listening.
It will also help you to know what kind of listening style the other person has.
You will be able to communicate your intentions to others without difficulty.
By understanding the intentions and thoughts of the other person, you will be able to communicate more smoothly.

In addition, when you learn how you listen to yourself and others, and are able to "transcend" that listening style, you will be able to
You will be able to truly "choose" your own life.
You will be able to build your own life, your relationships will improve, the people around you will grow, and your life will become amazingly rich.

This book will help you master the best way to listen, improve your communication, and enrich your life.
I also hope that you will become interested in Japanese culture.